Big Poppa Keeps Getting Bigger

MSN provides the impetus for today’s blog again.  In the Ask Lynn Advice column, one wife mentions that her husband keeps gaining weight and she doesn’t know how to handle it.  (check it out)

Between today’s entry and yesterday’s blog, She’s a Brick House, it’s clear that health and body image are key factors in relationships. 

I know a little bit about this subject.  Let’s just say I’m not exactly in the same shape I was in while roaming the secondary, seeking whom I may devour.  (yeah, that’s me in the photo)

And here’s what I’ve learned…Nobody can make you change your lifestyle (eating habits, exercise, and sleeping habits) until YOU are absolutely ready.  At the same time, having a supportive partner who makes it known that your health is important to him/her is essential!

Are there any testimonials out there on the best way to handle things when a spouse, or significant other, is getting further out of shape and won’t make the necessary adjustments?

How do you handle that situation?

She’s a Brick House

Do you love your woman’s body?

For those of you who have hotmail as an email service, one of today’s headlines was, “Why He Loves Your Body Even if You Don’t“.

It wasn’t much of an article, but rather a collection of quotes from men who loves the figures of the significant women in their lives. 

For Example:

The pleasure of plus
“My wife is plus-size — and it’s a plus in every aspect of the word — especially when it comes to spooning.”
– Anthony Abruccio, 39, Brooklyn, NY

Stay strong
“I like muscles! My girl’s arms are cut, toned and sexy—and I love when she wraps ’em around me.”
– Carl Steir, 31, Clifton, NJ

When thin isn’t in
“I used to date a dieter. She obsessed over everything she ate and was depressed every single time she looked in the mirror. My new girlfriend loves to eat and bake. She’s not thin or heavy. She’s healthy, and I’m happy!”
– Matt Magino, 29, Brick, NJ

Tell me what you think of your lady’s body…

On the Right Track

I’m on a mission!  I don’t just want to lose weight.  I want to be healthy.  And BEing healthy is a result of DOing healthy things.  Unfortunately, I have a number of unhealthy eating habits.  One such habit has been my tendency to eat big meals late at night.

Two weeks ago, I started the “After 7 Club“–a group of individuals committed to passing up those late night binges.  And honestly, I’ve been thrilled with the strength and discipline I’ve been able to demonstrate.  (I really believe a lot of it is a result of the accountability that comes from making a public commitment to something and having others join in on the effort.)

Well, something special happened on Saturday night.  I took my wife out on a dinner date to a Hibachi restaurant so there was another couple at our table.  Long story short…the gentleman seated near us, out of the nowhere, shared with us his testimony about how he lost 70 pounds.  His wife then began to tell us about how his snoring and sleep apnea impacted her sleeping, and consequently, their relationship.

He knew nothing about me, nor my efforts, before sharing that information.

I’m just amazed at the way God knows exactly when to send people and messages to let you know that you’re on the right track.

And here’s what I’m learning…those special “messengers” show up AFTER you’ve made a decision, and begun moving forward.

Take Care of the Little Things…

(First, I want to thank the doctors (Dr. Breus and Michael Rack, MD) for sharing comments on the blog over the last couple days.  Sleep Apnea is a serious condition that needs to be properly addressed.  I strongly urge everyone that suffers from it to take care of it as soon as possible.) 

My former coach, Joe Paterno, used to say, “Take care of the little things, and the big things will take care of themselves.”

Well, over the last few days, I’ve tried to put that advice into practice. 

I confessed on Tuesday that I suffer from sleep apnea.  I believe that this condition is a largely impacted by me being overweight. 

Well, instead of a major crash diet, or liposuction, I decided to approach this BIG problem by taking care of one LITTLE thing at a time.  It’s hard trying to attack a problem that seems huge and insurmountable.  So, for the last few days, I’ve cut out the late-night snacks that I’ve grown so accustomed (and addicted) to.  Since Tuesday, I haven’t eaten anything after 7pm.

And you know what….I feel better about myself already.

What “little thing” can you address in your life that may lead to big results in the long run?